I hate most things BI


lilpetrabbit:

a few days ago bf told me that a couple years ago when he played counterstrike he would respond to dudes getting angry and aggressive and hostile by saying “a kissaroo from me to you” in a slightly goofy friendly voice sort of like the voice you’d associate with a dog muppet.  he said they would absolutely lose their shit every time, insisting things like “i dont want a kissaroo from you!  only tall blonde girls!”.  they always said kissaroo.  i cant stop thinking about this

sageruto:

the fucking worst is when people are like “you hate people for having a different opinion than you!!!!” like im not shitting on this guy because he thinks pistachio ice cream is gross im shitting on him because he actually believes that i and people like me dont deserve basic human rights and respect and safety

llllucy:

Me at parties

llllucy:

Me at parties

chiisanatantei:

ipoophere:

wait

this speaks to me on an emotional level

bee-the-gatekeeper:

meajoraswrath:

xdominoe:

queenofthesouthernisles:

I just LOVE the animation here. The part with just their hands looks real. And I love the way Gothel’s fingers go from motherly gentle touch to creepy and evil. Beautiful

#I really apprecciate this gif#because when you’re in an abusive relationship often nothing seems wrong until you try to stand up for yourself#that loving pat tranforms into a claw when she defends herself#but really it was a claw all along(via)

Tangled actually did a better job capturing an emotionally abusive relationship than most other things I’ve seen. And I don’t just mean when Gothel kidnapped her and lied to her about who she was. It was everything. She kept Rapunzel with her by cutting people out of her life and destroying her self-esteem. She puts her down and doesn’t allow her to feel confident at all. Recall when Rapunzel states she thinks Flynn likes her, Gothel blows her off with, “But just look at you. You think he’s impressed?” She also constantly makes Rapunzel feel responsible for everything that goes wrong. When they get in the argument in the beginning, Gothel victimizes herself and does her best to make Rapunzel feel guilty for asking her for a simple favor. It’s so textbook. And immediately after anything, she treats Rapunzel by promising her favourite soup and reminding her, “I love you most” to reel her back into that false sense of security.
And back to the animation of how she didn’t notice the maternal and loving hand was actually a malicious claw until she realised she was in an abusive relationship. Basically, Tangled is a really important movie, and the fact Gothel is so familiar to those of us who have experienced abuse is good because children are going to watch this and look for Gothels in their own lives.

Another point… this highlights why everyone needs to learn not to be nice all the time. I don’t mean be deliberately rude or disrespectful. I mean that you don’t brush off every comment, you don’t make yourself totally accommodating, you learn to say no… because there will be times when you’ll meet someone who seems nice and yet it can take surprisingly little to reveal their true colors.
Predatory types, the people who want to do this to someone, look for the weak link, the person who won’t fight back. All predators look for the one least likely to fight back, the one alone, the needy one. Even a small show of self-will can be very upsetting to them… I’ve been cussed out by guys just for not stroking their ego. Yeah, just that. My friend sat and giggled at everything this one guy said (and he was a smart-mouthed prick) and he stuck to her like glue. And as we walked outside he cussed me out. I was gobsmacked then but now I see it as a great compliment… and I see the weakness in him. Scary… but I feel very lucky.
Oh, as for the friend… she was one of those rare special people who is totally nice and polite, but never for a second fell for the crap. She’s just very civil. But that also meant she had to tolerate him longer than I did…

bee-the-gatekeeper:

meajoraswrath:

xdominoe:

queenofthesouthernisles:

I just LOVE the animation here. The part with just their hands looks real. And I love the way Gothel’s fingers go from motherly gentle touch to creepy and evil. Beautiful

(via)

Tangled actually did a better job capturing an emotionally abusive relationship than most other things I’ve seen. And I don’t just mean when Gothel kidnapped her and lied to her about who she was. It was everything. She kept Rapunzel with her by cutting people out of her life and destroying her self-esteem. She puts her down and doesn’t allow her to feel confident at all. Recall when Rapunzel states she thinks Flynn likes her, Gothel blows her off with, “But just look at you. You think he’s impressed?” She also constantly makes Rapunzel feel responsible for everything that goes wrong. When they get in the argument in the beginning, Gothel victimizes herself and does her best to make Rapunzel feel guilty for asking her for a simple favor. It’s so textbook. And immediately after anything, she treats Rapunzel by promising her favourite soup and reminding her, “I love you most” to reel her back into that false sense of security.

And back to the animation of how she didn’t notice the maternal and loving hand was actually a malicious claw until she realised she was in an abusive relationship. Basically, Tangled is a really important movie, and the fact Gothel is so familiar to those of us who have experienced abuse is good because children are going to watch this and look for Gothels in their own lives.

Another point… this highlights why everyone needs to learn not to be nice all the time. I don’t mean be deliberately rude or disrespectful. I mean that you don’t brush off every comment, you don’t make yourself totally accommodating, you learn to say no… because there will be times when you’ll meet someone who seems nice and yet it can take surprisingly little to reveal their true colors.

Predatory types, the people who want to do this to someone, look for the weak link, the person who won’t fight back. All predators look for the one least likely to fight back, the one alone, the needy one. Even a small show of self-will can be very upsetting to them… I’ve been cussed out by guys just for not stroking their ego. Yeah, just that. My friend sat and giggled at everything this one guy said (and he was a smart-mouthed prick) and he stuck to her like glue. And as we walked outside he cussed me out. I was gobsmacked then but now I see it as a great compliment… and I see the weakness in him. Scary… but I feel very lucky.

Oh, as for the friend… she was one of those rare special people who is totally nice and polite, but never for a second fell for the crap. She’s just very civil. But that also meant she had to tolerate him longer than I did…

hyadain:

got6:

taeminsmushroomhair:

got6:

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what does this even mean

Regret Orb

( chants & bangs hands on table rhythmically) regret orb regret orb regret orb regret orb

naotakunn:

i cant believe this. i cant fucking believe this. i meant to send this to my boyfriend but instead i sent it to my boss right after i told her i was quitting all i wanted to do was make an inappropriate cookie joke but no i got mixed up texting two people at once and literally sent a picture of a chocolate chip cookie captioned “ooh she thique” to the fifty year old suburban mother of two of whom i have nothing but a strictly professional relationship with. after knowing me for almost a year and a half as a hard working and respectable employee this is the last thing i will ever say to her i can never go back to that shop again all because of this god damn cookie blunder What have i Done

naotakunn:

i cant believe this. i cant fucking believe this. i meant to send this to my boyfriend but instead i sent it to my boss right after i told her i was quitting all i wanted to do was make an inappropriate cookie joke but no i got mixed up texting two people at once and literally sent a picture of a chocolate chip cookie captioned “ooh she thique” to the fifty year old suburban mother of two of whom i have nothing but a strictly professional relationship with. after knowing me for almost a year and a half as a hard working and respectable employee this is the last thing i will ever say to her i can never go back to that shop again all because of this god damn cookie blunder What have i Done

feministingforchange:

feministcaptainkirk:

Spot the lie. Oh wait, trick question

This is SPOT ON!!!

killbenedictcumberbatch:

i asked this question in 2011 and after three years i was nowhere near prepared for this answer

killbenedictcumberbatch:

i asked this question in 2011 and after three years i was nowhere near prepared for this answer

life-writer:

everyone should see this movie ヽ(○´∀`)ノ♪

life-writer:

everyone should see this movie ヽ(○´∀`)ノ♪

doublepseudonym:

Come on baby girl, flex your zygomaticus major for this greasy stranger.

doublepseudonym:

Come on baby girl, flex your zygomaticus major for this greasy stranger.

halloweenja:

*main character becomes a villain* oh my GOD… oh MY GOd do that again

datdullahan:

ripblkdzn:

and this is for all the white people that think it’s okay to say nigga

Dear my high school’s football team…

y-a-n-d-e-r-e:

drawing in class is such a religious experience

y-a-n-d-e-r-e:

drawing in class is such a religious experience

iggycat:

Someone needs to write a ‘the fire alarm went off at 3 am and now the cute guy from the flat next door is standing next to me in his underwear’ AU